Showing posts with label belief. Show all posts
Showing posts with label belief. Show all posts

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Are You a Seminar Junkie?

Do you enjoy going to Seminars? Yes?!? Do you think that you are a seminar junkie? Yes, I know what you are thinking - "Goodness gracious me, no!"

Do you think that there's a thin dividing line, between a Seminar Junkie and an information gatherer (a knowledge acquirer)? What, in your opinion, is the difference?

Do you think that the difference is in the objective? The mission that you have in your mind when you attend a seminar?

There are so many seminars, that you may sometimes be overwhelmed. Which one to choose? Millionaire Mind Intensive Seminar? Guerilla Business Intensive Seminar? Train the Trainer Seminar? Master Your Mind Seminar? Enlightened Warrior Camp? Never Work Again Seminar? Property Mastery Seminar? Kung Fu Marketing Seminar?

Don't you think that you should gather as much knowledge as possible? Of course you should be learning everyday. Continuous learning. So that you can contribute to The Learning Organisation.

Enlightened companies, like Exxon-Mobil, Motorola, Intel etc, have policies on the number of official training days that an employee attends a year. These would normally average about 5 -10 days. The rest of the training would be on-the-job training. So this would be a good norm or standard for you to benchmark yourself, isn't it?

But the question is, what amount of training days should YOU undergo, if you do not include organisation-sponsored training? Using your own money?

It indicates what your mentality (or mind-frame or belief-system) is when you need to make a decision whether to undergo training for which YOU PAY out of your own pocket! Isn't it true?

You have an employee-mentality when you expect your organisation to pay for all your training.

You have an entrepreneurial belief-system when you pay yourself for training. Training that you feel will make you a better person. When you are a better person, will your organisation be a better one? Will your future be a brighter one (whether in your existing organisation or a new one)?

When you are thirsty for knowledge, is it not true that you may become a seminar junkie? That you may attend all the seminars that is presented, or offered, to you?

Have you attended some excellent seminar previews? The ones that know exactly how to tempt you with irresistible offers? Some even use NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) techniques, which are very effective (if you are not aware that they are using them).

Some previews use peer pressure. Others (the occasional odd ones, thank goodness) use hard-selling; they may even make you feel humiliated, by decreasing your self-image, if you do not take-up their offer.

So, how to make sure that you do not become a Seminar Junkie? The answer?: Balance! Everything in life should be done in a balanced way. Everything should be done in moderation.

The moral of the story? Seek knowledge wherever, and whenever, you can.

However, to avoid over-doing the Seminar Circuit, just spend about 10% of your annual income paying for training programmes. If you can afford it, perhaps increase the amount to 20% of your annual income. This will ensure that you avoid the "All study and no action, makes you a geek" ... hehehe!

I wish you Success in your undertakings and Good Health and Wealth to you and your family. Take care!

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How Do You Apply Will-Power for Your Success?

What is the secret to using your will-power?

To whom should you direct your will-power? To other people? No. The secret is to direct all your will-power to yourself! You are the captain of your destiny. So you need the most will-power to power your ship to your destiny.

Direct your will-power to your mind. Your mind is more powerful that the best computer in the world. Make your mind more powerful with the help of your will-power.

Combine will-power with belief. Add a clear and focused vision of where you want to be; which will ultimately become your destiny.

I met a guy who looked as though he was prepared to go mountain hiking. He had a big plastic bottle of a special health drink (to energize him ... he told me) specially strapped to his waist. He had a big haver-sack on his back. The haver-sack contained his PC lap-top, and all his business brochures/documents.

Since he has started an on-line internet business (in addition to his three other already successful conventional businesses), his lap-top allows him to conduct his business anywhere that he happens to be. His brochures and documents allow him to conduct business wherever he happens to be. A mobile business (man)! Because I know that he is a successful businessman, I could only admire his will-power to do whatever it takes to always be creative in his business approach. He believes in his ability, and has a clear vision of what he wants to achieve.

You have to put pictures of health in your mind if you want to be healthy. Picture yourself in the pink of health. As slim as the world's super models (well ... it may be stretching it a bit ... o.k. then, imagine you losing 25% of your extra weight ... fair target?)

Picture in your mind the wealth that you want, if wealth is what you want. Put a picture of your red dream sports-car, with full leather uphostery, 6 wheels (??? ... inclusive of spare wheel and steering wheel ... hehehe!), and imagine yourself enjoying the cool mountain breeze as you drive powerfully up the mountain (of success?). Driving to your bungalow on top of the mountain, with a beautiful view of the ocean on one side, and the city on the other side.

How can you be of service to those in need of help? Be an inspiration to them. How? Lead by example!

Lead them to rise out of their causes of despair and despondency. If you want them to be rich, do not yourself be poor; you have to have riches.

If you want them to be healthy, do not yourself be slovenly or slothful, by not exercising regularly; you need to be a picture of health and vigour.

The moral of the story? Make use of will-power - yours! - to powerfully march towards success. When you combine a strong will-power with a deep belief in your ability and focused vision of your life-goals, you will certainly achieve your destiny! As the saying goes, "Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a choice!"

I wish you Success in your undertakings, and Good Health and Wealth to you and your family. Take care!